DJ tied the knot. So did SG. PS, SK & MG are following suit soon. Gets you thinking about the institution and when you yourself will be a part of it. The idea is still extremely distant to me, apart from being equally frightening, if not a little bit naive too.
How much is a sacrifice on the altar of convention & society? How much is compromise? A short discussion last evening got me thinking...the topic was Indian parents becoming familiar with the concept of a "live in" relationship. Although we have a few movies and books dealing with this situation, its mostly an ultra urban phenomenon with most families in India blanching at the mere sign of any such intent.
However, logic & reason tell me that this is the best way to go. I would like to have done a "trial run" (for a lack of a more suitable phrase) before I walk around the fire or say 'I do'.
How would my own family react if such a situation were to occur with me? Outrage is the word that comes to mind first...followed by a total loss of all credibility & reputation amongst family. Aah the paradox of our times!
To all the men taking the plunge...ustedes tienen cojones grandes
Happiness to all the couples & couples to be...Oh and I think I may as well resign myself to being ostracised...or don't I seem like the 'live in' type?