Monday, April 04, 2005

Sayonara Hameed

Sayo was a 23 year old girl
She was incredibly intelligent, smart, hip, brainy and articulate
She was almost a Chartered Accountant with Ernst & Young
She was on the way to becoming a great success story...another one of the shining torch bearers heralding in the New India
She was also my class mate of 3 years in college
I say was....because Sayo is dead today

She got hit by a bus and succumbed to her injuries. I was just told this a few minutes back

My feelings and reactions have surprised even me

An overwhelming sense of anger. An overwhelming, teeth gnashing, fist clenching sensation of wanting to lash out.....lash out at the driver who did this...at the authorities whose oversight lets such guys drive..( it was a govt. bus)...lash out at God for the injustice and cruelty of the event

The sprititually inclined or worldly folk would say that these incidents happen...for a larger reason...or thousands of people died in the recent Tsunami...

Why did she have to die? Why was such a full, lively, charismatic spirit crushed...snuffed out in such a manner as an auto crash?

I only feel incredible anger and pain...no hint of "understanding"...no sense of ...anything...

I feel helpless

Sayo...the manner in which you lived...I and I am sure many, many others will never forget you

7 Comments:

At Monday, April 04, 2005 5:25:00 PM, Blogger Goncalo Leonard said...

Mani,

My thoughts are with you in these difficult moments.

Keep your head straight and continue living your dream.

Gonks

 
At Monday, April 04, 2005 7:13:00 PM, Blogger Pedro Oliveira said...

Strenght my friend.
Wishes for better days,

PedroO

 
At Thursday, April 07, 2005 6:10:00 PM, Blogger Maria said...

Condolensces to you and Sayonara's family! So sorry ..... She'll be in my prayers...

 
At Saturday, April 16, 2005 11:39:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sayonara Hameed
Sayo to her very large and wonderfully classy friends,
Shamol to Papa
Sha to Mama and elder sister (called by Sayo as Thatha, meaning elder sis in Malayalam language of which she knew little)
Shalu to many others
That was my dear daughter, also the best friend I ever had in my nearly 59 years of life.
She was truly special to me, the boy I do not have, the one who promised to look after me in my old age, the one who corrected, advised and counseled me even in my official life.
She had such great friends, pals, admirers that I never had in my life of nearly 59 years.
She choose Aravind to be her life partner, because she alway was sensible,classy and very sure of herself. I never knew the intensity of that relation, never could discusss this with her, because we waited for her CA final in May next to be over, and she took it as a challenge. Now she is gone and left me Aravind only.
All of you friends, pray for her She is resting in peace in our family grave in a village known as Andona near the Town Tamarassery, in Calicut dt of Kerala with full of treas around her. I will miss her terribly, as my dear daughter, my best friend.Hamid

 
At Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:24:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

sayo was such a wonderful person and a very good friend of mine. she will always have a special place in my heart.

vivek

 
At Thursday, November 17, 2005 12:56:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

One look back through the years, I see her face. Cheers, for every single moment, she lived in exuberance. Memories will be cherished today and forever.

Pothan

 
At Tuesday, August 07, 2007 12:15:00 AM, Blogger Arv said...

Still here babe...

 

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